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So, you’re interested in joining our BDSM community, but you’re not quite sure how to approach the membership interview questions. Don’t worry; we’re here to help you navigate this process with confidence and clarity. Here’s a breakdown of each question and how you can craft thoughtful responses:
Q1: Your age, gender, location and BDSM experience.
This question is about getting to know you better. Be honest about your age, gender identity, and location. When discussing your experience, mention any relevant background you have in BDSM, such as workshops attended, books read, or online forums frequented. If you’re new to BDSM, that’s okay! Just let us know, as we welcome individuals at all experience levels.
Q2: What do you understand by consent?
Consent is at the core of BDSM practices. Explain that consent in BDSM involves all parties willingly agreeing to engage in specific activities, knowing their boundaries, and having the freedom to withdraw consent at any time. Highlight your understanding of the importance of clear communication, negotiation, and respect for boundaries.
Q3: How would you ensure safety of your partner?
Safety is paramount in BDSM. Describe your approach to ensuring the safety of yourself and your partner(s) during a scene. Mention your knowledge of safe words, aftercare, and risk-aware consensual kink (RACK) or other paradigms that you follow. Emphasize your commitment to ongoing education and awareness of safety protocols.
Q4: What are your expectations from this server?
Share your expectations for joining the community. This could include seeking a supportive and inclusive space, opportunities for learning and growth, and the chance to connect with like-minded individuals. Be open about what you hope to gain from being a part of our community.
Remember, there are no right or wrong answers to these questions. We value honesty, respect, and a willingness to learn and grow within our community. Take your time to thoughtfully consider your responses, and we look forward to welcoming you into our BDSM community!
